Tuesday, 19 August 2014

Depression not funny business!!!!

Hey people



Hope you are well and in the best of health, I am doing great and keeping up my energy's and happy go lucky nature. Life is a strange thing one day up and one day down but the key is to surround yourself with positivity and most importantly positive people, who give you hope and happiness just by being in your life.

Just last week Robin Williams died, the man who made the world smile couldn't make his own world a haven. He suffered from depression and multiple problems which led to his suicide and death, I was shocked because I have grown up watching his movies and he really did have the power to make people smile. 

People in this day and age don't recognise depression as a real illness and think if they can't see the suffering it doesn't exist, it's a shame that we live in such a world where people need to see blood sweat and tears for proof of grief. The Robin Williams death definitely shook up the world and people started discussing depression as though it was a real illness, but why does it take someone to die for people to sympathise with a person they know and love.

I have personally been down the dark side of life and it isn't a good place to be, I have seen people judge and point fingers when they know I wasn't myself, at times like this you realise who is really there for you because in good times everyones your friend, only when your at your lowest the golden souls shine their light on you.

I have relatives going through this and I have love and care for them because I know when in depression your world is dark and disabled mentally, you can't get yourself out easily. I personally am a fighter but even with all my positiveness the dark side took over my mind and I know for sure no one can understand this until you go through depression.

I have a friend who has post natal depression, she goes crazy at her children even if they speak. She body slams them around the room and then cries and apologises, the way she makes them forget is she gives them a sticker for taking a beating and they don't even realise that the stickers are for getting a beating not good behaviour hahahaha. 

People don't even realise when this happens to them but if you have a friend or relative who is going through a tough time please don't judge them but try and understand them better, share some positive energy and bring a smile on your loved ones face because sometimes that may be enough to uplift their mood.

Rest in peace Robin Williams and may the world be relieved of all the sadness, spread some joy and be happy because money and relationships don't define happiness the simple things make you happy inner peace and joy.

Peace out people have a lovely day and stay happy love you all……

Yours truly Sam…..