Hey people,
Hope your all doing well and are happy bunnies where ever you are, I have got the flu oh yes it happens in Dubai as well, weather change brings along this damn flu. I was sick as a dog and went to watch a movie last night, the movie was supposed to be horror but turned out to be absolutely crap. The movie was 'Devils pass' I should have passed on it but I suppose Curiosity kills the cat and I went for it, Turns out to be a total stupid crappy film my opinion don't watch it total time waster.
Now we have got that out the way I would like to come to the point of the blog, I saw Mayuki today for Brunch she was looking hot as ever. Mayuki was wearing leather leggings with a graphic sweat top and Louboutin's enough said really, I was like girl you look damn hot. She always replies "tell me something I don't know", I love her confidence she doesn't take life too seriously and says it how it is, we all need to be like her and that's the point I am coming to.
Mayuki and I caught up on long awaited chit chat and I told her about my other friends with man trouble and all the stuff which was going on, you see I have so many friends who are going through shit with men, that I feel like I am going to explode. I give them all advice on how to mind F### a man and they just can't do it, I know I keep saying women are made to love and nurture but each time a man screws a friend of mine over, I get so angry like you cannot imagine.
So I was telling Mayuki all this and she just smiled, if I havn't told you Mayuki's story then you need to hear this. When Mayuki was young her dad and mum were happy for some time but as she grew up she realised her dad was cheating on her mother, all she ever saw was her mothers tears and weakness. Her mother choose to stay with her father for her, so that she could have the right upbringing and no financial hassle, well that was all good for the money side of things but the effect it had on her seeing her mother cry was all too much for her.
Mayuki supported her mother and it was never discussed what her father was doing but she knew very well, she opted to go boarding school in the UK because she couldn't stand and watch her mother ruin her life for her. She stayed away ever since, from university to work life she has never stayed in Tokyo and her mother till this day lives that life, Mayuki often says to her mother she should have walked away to teach her father a lesson but her mother was also in love with her father and for namesake she just wasn't strong enough. Mayuki doesn't have a great relationship with her father because she cannot respect the man who ruined her mother.
Now Mayuki lives her life treating men like worthless creatures, I love it and I actually think very much like Mayuki, men who cheat and treat women bad need to be taught a lesson, that if women love and treat you well they can also have the power to turn those tables around and "TREAT THEM MEAN TO KEEP THEM KEEN". The first thing Mayuki said to me when I told her about my friends and how frustrated I was, she said "Sam chill out let life teach the women to stand up for herself, because these silly girls don't realize until they hurt", she is right but it's hard to watch them go through this.
Sometimes I feel like waging war against men full scale but I do understand that all men are not the same, for the rest who are full of shit the only way they will learn is if women show them that we don't give a shit. The problem is we fall head over heels, for god sake wake up men don't like nice girls they need to be treated some what shitty, that's when they are up for the chase.
Mayuki has an amazing attidtude to men she doesn't take them seriously at all, she has till this day never fallen in love, she is dating here and there but it's on her terms and then she drops them like an egg smashhhhh. She has broken hearts like you can't imagine and says the man who gets her attention will have to be out of this world in order to get even 5% care. To be honest if we all think her way we won't get hurt, but the bloody women we are we look at the small things and give up all our love and attention so quickly that you no longer are a challenge.
Mayuki treats her PA like a piece of meat and always hires hot looking guys, she likes to look at them that way so they feel like nothing hahahaha, I went in her office a few times when she is in town and trust me it's something out of a movie not a FUGLY man in sight. In Dubai the way you look lands you a good job so this way of thinking works here, Mayuki exploits it and never leaves a trail. Her mother is saddened by the fact that Mayuki can never trust a man because of her father, but when a man does this sort of damage he needs to think if my daughter went through this how would I feel.
Mayuki has no compassion for men and has a don't give a shit attitude and to be honest we think a like, but how do I get that through to the women around me is the question. I have a lot of friends who love and respect me and look up to me for guidance and advice, I always feel a sense of responsibility that I have to stay strong so they all know that we can fight any battle in life. Sometimes even the toughest soldier goes down, I try not to show I am weak because I feel I need to be that role model. This is what keeps me going, I want to show women to love themselves because if you don't love and respect yourself men certainly won't.
Once your at peace with your life and feel strong enough to get through each day, only then will you be able to be in a relationship. The man who comes into your life has to be someone who compliments your being you, if he doesn't then he isn't the right man for you.
Ladies I know I come down really hard and say things which seem harsh but each time your tears drop over a man who doesn't treat you well, that really does affect me. I am trying not to become this way but I think if I don't feel for my ladies then they won't feel for themselves, you all need to know that until this man your with hasn't showed his worth then there is no need to give your all just like Mayuki says.
Over time I have come to know a women's strength through my mother, friends and women around me, you are stronger then you think and as Kelly Clarkson sings it "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger", sing it sister because she is right on point with those lyrics. Practice your inner strength ladies because when the time comes at least your not left broken in pieces like the emotional fools we are.
I hope I leave you today in a stronger mind frame because I write about issues which are happening around me, I'm not a man hater honestly but the men of today aren't like our fathers who may not have been romantic but relationships and marriage were sacred, those men aren't manufactured these days they have been discontinued hahahaha on dear.
Anyway I hope you all have a lovely day I am working on interview with a man to ask all the questions we have wanted to know from a mans point of view, I am trying to devise the questions carefully so we can get as much as we want out of him. The identity of this man won't be revealed so we can have an open conversation about the mind of the man species.
Peace out people yours truly Sam.................
Hope your all doing well and are happy bunnies where ever you are, I have got the flu oh yes it happens in Dubai as well, weather change brings along this damn flu. I was sick as a dog and went to watch a movie last night, the movie was supposed to be horror but turned out to be absolutely crap. The movie was 'Devils pass' I should have passed on it but I suppose Curiosity kills the cat and I went for it, Turns out to be a total stupid crappy film my opinion don't watch it total time waster.
Now we have got that out the way I would like to come to the point of the blog, I saw Mayuki today for Brunch she was looking hot as ever. Mayuki was wearing leather leggings with a graphic sweat top and Louboutin's enough said really, I was like girl you look damn hot. She always replies "tell me something I don't know", I love her confidence she doesn't take life too seriously and says it how it is, we all need to be like her and that's the point I am coming to.
Mayuki and I caught up on long awaited chit chat and I told her about my other friends with man trouble and all the stuff which was going on, you see I have so many friends who are going through shit with men, that I feel like I am going to explode. I give them all advice on how to mind F### a man and they just can't do it, I know I keep saying women are made to love and nurture but each time a man screws a friend of mine over, I get so angry like you cannot imagine.
So I was telling Mayuki all this and she just smiled, if I havn't told you Mayuki's story then you need to hear this. When Mayuki was young her dad and mum were happy for some time but as she grew up she realised her dad was cheating on her mother, all she ever saw was her mothers tears and weakness. Her mother choose to stay with her father for her, so that she could have the right upbringing and no financial hassle, well that was all good for the money side of things but the effect it had on her seeing her mother cry was all too much for her.
Mayuki supported her mother and it was never discussed what her father was doing but she knew very well, she opted to go boarding school in the UK because she couldn't stand and watch her mother ruin her life for her. She stayed away ever since, from university to work life she has never stayed in Tokyo and her mother till this day lives that life, Mayuki often says to her mother she should have walked away to teach her father a lesson but her mother was also in love with her father and for namesake she just wasn't strong enough. Mayuki doesn't have a great relationship with her father because she cannot respect the man who ruined her mother.
Now Mayuki lives her life treating men like worthless creatures, I love it and I actually think very much like Mayuki, men who cheat and treat women bad need to be taught a lesson, that if women love and treat you well they can also have the power to turn those tables around and "TREAT THEM MEAN TO KEEP THEM KEEN". The first thing Mayuki said to me when I told her about my friends and how frustrated I was, she said "Sam chill out let life teach the women to stand up for herself, because these silly girls don't realize until they hurt", she is right but it's hard to watch them go through this.
Sometimes I feel like waging war against men full scale but I do understand that all men are not the same, for the rest who are full of shit the only way they will learn is if women show them that we don't give a shit. The problem is we fall head over heels, for god sake wake up men don't like nice girls they need to be treated some what shitty, that's when they are up for the chase.
Mayuki has an amazing attidtude to men she doesn't take them seriously at all, she has till this day never fallen in love, she is dating here and there but it's on her terms and then she drops them like an egg smashhhhh. She has broken hearts like you can't imagine and says the man who gets her attention will have to be out of this world in order to get even 5% care. To be honest if we all think her way we won't get hurt, but the bloody women we are we look at the small things and give up all our love and attention so quickly that you no longer are a challenge.
Mayuki treats her PA like a piece of meat and always hires hot looking guys, she likes to look at them that way so they feel like nothing hahahaha, I went in her office a few times when she is in town and trust me it's something out of a movie not a FUGLY man in sight. In Dubai the way you look lands you a good job so this way of thinking works here, Mayuki exploits it and never leaves a trail. Her mother is saddened by the fact that Mayuki can never trust a man because of her father, but when a man does this sort of damage he needs to think if my daughter went through this how would I feel.
Mayuki has no compassion for men and has a don't give a shit attitude and to be honest we think a like, but how do I get that through to the women around me is the question. I have a lot of friends who love and respect me and look up to me for guidance and advice, I always feel a sense of responsibility that I have to stay strong so they all know that we can fight any battle in life. Sometimes even the toughest soldier goes down, I try not to show I am weak because I feel I need to be that role model. This is what keeps me going, I want to show women to love themselves because if you don't love and respect yourself men certainly won't.
Once your at peace with your life and feel strong enough to get through each day, only then will you be able to be in a relationship. The man who comes into your life has to be someone who compliments your being you, if he doesn't then he isn't the right man for you.
Ladies I know I come down really hard and say things which seem harsh but each time your tears drop over a man who doesn't treat you well, that really does affect me. I am trying not to become this way but I think if I don't feel for my ladies then they won't feel for themselves, you all need to know that until this man your with hasn't showed his worth then there is no need to give your all just like Mayuki says.
Over time I have come to know a women's strength through my mother, friends and women around me, you are stronger then you think and as Kelly Clarkson sings it "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger", sing it sister because she is right on point with those lyrics. Practice your inner strength ladies because when the time comes at least your not left broken in pieces like the emotional fools we are.
I hope I leave you today in a stronger mind frame because I write about issues which are happening around me, I'm not a man hater honestly but the men of today aren't like our fathers who may not have been romantic but relationships and marriage were sacred, those men aren't manufactured these days they have been discontinued hahahaha on dear.
Anyway I hope you all have a lovely day I am working on interview with a man to ask all the questions we have wanted to know from a mans point of view, I am trying to devise the questions carefully so we can get as much as we want out of him. The identity of this man won't be revealed so we can have an open conversation about the mind of the man species.
Peace out people yours truly Sam.................
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