Man oh bloody Man!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good afternoon people,

I do hope your all well and in the best of health, I am doing just fine and to be honest I couldn't wait to blog today. The reason behind that is this juicy topic- Man oh bloody Man, it's quite self explanatory but I am ready to give you all a breakdown.

Firstly I would like to explain what brings me to slate men today, I have been spending a lot of time with the girls and we have one common problem, yes ladies it's the man. I am just so sick and tired of the man issues we all keep having, why isn't life just simple?, why can we not have so many complications, is way above my understanding. To be honest our pain and stress is most of the time self inflicted, we women like to surround ourselves with these issues.

For once in our life if we behaved like men, our life's would be so much simpler. Yes I have hit the nail on the head, the action would be just, don't give a rats ass hahahahaha, I know we are not like that and emotions in the ocean is what we feel.

I ask why why why?, the simple answer is your a women, we crave for love attention and so much more, we are happier with the simple things which men just can't be bothered to do. I was talking to one of my friends who is going through man issues, she was with me and all she wanted was for her man to send her message with some loving words. What she craved for was one gentle hug or cuddle to take away her worries, this is all we women crave for, but don't hold your breathe ladies they don't have a clue and to be honest unless he loves you madly, you ain't getting shit hahaha, don't be mad its the truth.

After one week of hearing so many man issues, I got pumped up to write about this issue today, why do we need a man to make us feel better, love us and make us feel special. Ladies wake up and smell the air, free yourself of this, I as a women say this in the nicest way "screw love and find a hobby". 

Its a fact if you keep yourself busy and cut the cord of pain and stress, only then will you release yourself from self inflicted pain. We are our own worst enemies, before you met the Bloody Man how did you survive?, you just did so why not now. I know your thinking she doesn't know how we feel, actually since most of you don't know me, I have been through and felt every emotion there is available.

I am exhausted from it and now getting exhausted from watching you all going through it, it's not an easy journey because unless your going through this ladies you won't understand. Majority of the women reading this know exactly what I'm talking about.

My friend said "Sam you need to write about this and tell the world that the man thinks we owe him all of us, our love devotion and emotion". But all this isn't owed, it is actually given by our free will, a man just doesn't know how lucky he is to have that, from his faithful loving partner. Why are we always the ones who give this all up, where is the emotion and care from the other side.

Some of you ladies may be the minority - lucky ones, you have the man who gives you all that and more, he my lady is the real man. This is the man you are all searching for, make sure you pay attention I said 'Minority' hahaha. There is a good relationship to be created, but expectations are something you need to get rid of. I have a rule in life, expect nothing and when you get something, you will enjoy it more. 

Love is over rated, we grew up watching romantic movies and cartoons of a love all most unreal, that's our downfall, it was in bedded in us from childhood and women are suckers for love happiness etc. I admire the women who have the balance, the love but don't loose themselves, their own identity is never lost. Its a scary thing giving all of you in the quest of love.

My advice is for less long term damage, let the man do the running around for you, if he is the one, then he will want you as much as you do. When the emotions are one sided it's a up hill struggle, you will only be fighting for more and be left broken, avoid this. I call it damage assessment, I know we have no control over the heart, but we have to have some sort of balance with mind body and soul.

I say all this because if given the chance, that I could do things differently I would. So why not self reflect and start protecting yourself from this, the point isn't not to love, the message is do love but hold onto your heart and be realistic, because when you loose yourself then get hurt, the pain is unbearable.

With all my heart I hope you all find the right man to give you all you dream of, the chances may be slim but hope is always there. Take on board what I say in pieces, from women to women I feel for you baby hahaha.

Anyway enough of emotions for today, I am listening to Riri's song Monster with Eminem, this got me in the aggressive mode. Hope you all have a good evening, I'm off to Dubai Mall for blog work.

By the way people I have launched my Youtube channel, called Zedge Dubai. Check it out when you get the chance, appreciate the love and support peeps.

Peace and love to you ladies.

Yours Truly Sam.........