Friday, 22 November 2013

Positive thought equals Positive life......

Hey people,



Hope your all in the best of health and spirits, I personally am feeling great and would like to transfer good thoughts and energy's to you. Last night in Dubai there was a thunder storm and rain pouring like a monsoon, I love it so much that I opened my balcony door and the curtains and just lay there listening to it, it felt like I am back in England but sleeping in Dubai.

Positive attitude is today's topic and why is this important for success in life?, we can all easily complain that our life's are shitty or we are not living the dream, but to have all of that having a positive approach in life is important. My moto in life is to see everything in a positive light and work hard for what you want to achieve, nothing comes on a plate in life. We all want success without a fight unfortunately it doesn't work that way, there is always a story behind a successful person and being positive is key.

How do we do this even when the shit hits the fan in life, people call me iron lady because even though I have seen it all I still smile, I smile because why should I give up on laughter in life. Only when I saw the worst of life did I understand and realize how strong I was, what got me through it all was my POSITIVE attitude because I refuse to let anyone have control over that.

When you think why people have better then you and that your the victim in life, I would say bloody well get over yourself and get a grip. Take a minute and think for a moment are you breathing, do you have a roof over your head and clean food and water, then your not as bad as those people in war conditions who don't even know if they will be alive for the next meal, so no if your not going through that, then you need to wake up and smell the air. 

The best advice I would like to give is when you look at people who have more then you don't think I wish I had that, rather then that think they worked hard for it and must have a story behind their success. On the other side what I think you need to do is look at someone worse off then yourself and then thank god that your still better off. I have been there when I thought I was the victim and the why me shit, but to be honest I was wasting my time and energy on thinking negatively. 

What we need to do is think positive thoughts even when things are bad, we need to find things which make us happy doesn't matter what it is, uplift your mood. Stop annoying people with your negativity as I see so many Facebook status saying "cut out the negative people from your life", seriously someone is gonna get rid of you if you don't clean up your act hahaha.

Don't even say "easier said then done Sam" as I won't take that for an answer, we all have it in us smiling isn't hard and if the worst is happening to you what help is being negative doing for you. When you think positive and imagine you are walking into your success, no matter what it is you will achieve it,  however many knock backs I get that makes me fight back with a smile and life hasn't got a choice but to give into my Positive attitude.

Get your nice dress on or watch a chick flick, comedy whatever rocks your boat and get yourself in a happier mind frame, I m listening to Lady Gaga's new song 'Do watcha want with my body' featuring R Kelly. My mood and positive attitude comes from listening to my favorite song or watching a funny movie, or making people laugh and laughing till I cry myself, life is too short to worry about shit, because I want to go down smiling and making people feel my good energy and to inspire you all to think the same way.

I feel when I am with my friends I make them smile, I compliment them on their assets and show them they can be as happy or more. What affect do you have on your friends, if your not adding value even in the form of comfort or happiness then your not in a good frame of mind and need to bring yourself into the light.

Please don't think of life as a curse I have been there done that, instead get off your bottom and make your dreams a reality don't go down without a fight, the only thing I always tell my friends is if you haven't tried everything to achieve your goals, then you didn't work hard enough. the law of attraction even states that if you think of good things even ten minutes a day and behave as though you have them, then the whole universe works towards getting you there.

So overall I hope this was helpful ladies I speak from experience and my advice is always tried and tested, I just want to see people happy and the key to happiness is to understand and change when or what your doing wrong. Lets all think of those less fortunate, turn on the news and look at whats happening in the Philippines, after the ruins they are left with the losses of life's are we worse off then them?, you can't really say yes so just change that mind of yours, you have nothing to loose but to be happy and positive.

Have a good day people and hope my advice hits home love it or hate it you know I am right, just reflect and absorb my beauties life will be better trust me and on that note peace out people.

Yours truly Sam.............. 

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