Hey world,
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Hope your all well and feeling happy wherever you are, as you can see we are going to talk fears. The thing about us women is, we spend too much time worrying about what could happen, we stop living for today. I am the sort of person who wants to live this life to the fullest, and take everyday as it comes.
From experiences in my life, I have learned to stop fearing anything but my creator, I mean what's the worst that can happen?, your fear will come alive. You can bet if you keep thinking about your worst fears they will happen, that fear will overcome you and destroy you.
I was talking to one of my friends who doesn't live the moment, because she fears what is coming. Life is not that long, to waste a second on thinking what could happen. Fill yourself with positive thoughts, and don't let any fears reside within you. The chances are once it happens, it will leave you in pieces.
I remember there was this job I really wanted, after the interview I feared I wasn't going to get it. I was making myself ill in thinking I won't get the job, I waited 2 weeks for a reply. I stalked the manager by calling to ask if she was there hahaha, oh don't judge, all you ladies do something like that sometime in your life. I didn't get the job, then I spent 2 weeks depressing myself about why I didn't get it. For god sake, look 4 weeks wasted, thinking about something I can't change.
Stop over thinking about things which aren't in your control, rather then thinking negatively, change your mindset to positive. If it doesn't go your way then at least you didn't stress yourself about it, that's after you get bad news. If you do, then think there is something better coming your way. Stop stressing yourselves out and everyone around you.
Make yourself happy, doesn't matter what it is, do it because life isn't worth living miserably. When my daughter behaves ungrateful I tell her, "there are people out there with no money, no food, no clean water, and you want to be ungrateful for not having a toy". She gets it straight away and so should you. I know your thinking easier said then done Sam, no actually I am preaching what I have practiced.
Everyone goes through a tough journey in their lives, I have had my fair share of the good the bad, and the ugly. I have come out an iron lady with a smile. I want to appreciate, and love the people who are there for me. Live this life smiling, I refuse to let money, problems and stress take my smile away, I love being happy and making people laugh. No sir no I won't become weak.
So take life as it comes, I don't think about tomorrow. When tomorrow comes and I made it there,I will give it a thought. Stress can give you anxiety, depression and so many health problems, I personally had anxiety issues a few years ago. I used to get palpitations from stress, couldn't breathe and felt I would die any moment.
So trust me in 29 years I have seen it all, and I don't talk books studies and psychology, I say it as I saw it. That's why I am so confident, behind my exterior is so much, been there done that worn the t-shirt. I lived through a lot of ups and downs.
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From experiences in my life, I have learned to stop fearing anything but my creator, I mean what's the worst that can happen?, your fear will come alive. You can bet if you keep thinking about your worst fears they will happen, that fear will overcome you and destroy you.
I was talking to one of my friends who doesn't live the moment, because she fears what is coming. Life is not that long, to waste a second on thinking what could happen. Fill yourself with positive thoughts, and don't let any fears reside within you. The chances are once it happens, it will leave you in pieces.
I remember there was this job I really wanted, after the interview I feared I wasn't going to get it. I was making myself ill in thinking I won't get the job, I waited 2 weeks for a reply. I stalked the manager by calling to ask if she was there hahaha, oh don't judge, all you ladies do something like that sometime in your life. I didn't get the job, then I spent 2 weeks depressing myself about why I didn't get it. For god sake, look 4 weeks wasted, thinking about something I can't change.
Stop over thinking about things which aren't in your control, rather then thinking negatively, change your mindset to positive. If it doesn't go your way then at least you didn't stress yourself about it, that's after you get bad news. If you do, then think there is something better coming your way. Stop stressing yourselves out and everyone around you.
Make yourself happy, doesn't matter what it is, do it because life isn't worth living miserably. When my daughter behaves ungrateful I tell her, "there are people out there with no money, no food, no clean water, and you want to be ungrateful for not having a toy". She gets it straight away and so should you. I know your thinking easier said then done Sam, no actually I am preaching what I have practiced.
Everyone goes through a tough journey in their lives, I have had my fair share of the good the bad, and the ugly. I have come out an iron lady with a smile. I want to appreciate, and love the people who are there for me. Live this life smiling, I refuse to let money, problems and stress take my smile away, I love being happy and making people laugh. No sir no I won't become weak.
So take life as it comes, I don't think about tomorrow. When tomorrow comes and I made it there,I will give it a thought. Stress can give you anxiety, depression and so many health problems, I personally had anxiety issues a few years ago. I used to get palpitations from stress, couldn't breathe and felt I would die any moment.
So trust me in 29 years I have seen it all, and I don't talk books studies and psychology, I say it as I saw it. That's why I am so confident, behind my exterior is so much, been there done that worn the t-shirt. I lived through a lot of ups and downs.
Those who know me say I am so strong, but I have become this way. I tell myself to build a bridge, and get over it haha. Seriously don't look at someone who looks like they have it all, and think they got it on a plate. They lived through their highs and lows, and made it to success with a journey, and a story to tell.
So the moral of this story is stay happy, and beam with confidence. Don't fear anything, because fearing means you let your fears run your life. Smile because it doesn't cost anything.
Thank you people for listening, and I hope somewhere or the other what I say sinks in, because happiness is a choice, and shit happens so get over it hahahaha.......
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