Monday, 23 September 2013

What women want?????

What women want? not rocket science to be honest, we don't ask for much but why men don't understand that beats me.  

Well for you gentlemen out there who don't have a clue, and you ladies who do have a clue, but don't know they do, here's what I have to say on the subject.

Believe it or not we women are simple beings, you just handle with care. Unless you're in the bedroom, where you can do what the hell you want, hahaha sorry had to say that. 
Women believe in the little things, which don't cost you money, just your attention. I know boys it's hard for you guys but if you listen carefully you might get everything you want, oh yes I mean everything. 

Like for example compliment us when we look nice, I mean a hot girl walks by you don't forget to look at her, so why not the beautiful wife, girlfriend or partner beside you. Even if we look rundown a compliment will get you a 4 course meal, 3 courses plus extra hint-hint. Now ladies don't get mad at me but you know if you got a compliment you would be jelly.

We women show our appreciation straight away so this could work wonders for you, also if you love this women you're with, a flower on it's own costs nothing, takes no time to think of or to buy. So spend that money which will pay off like any investment.

One complaint I hear again and again, "he never listens" or "he's always tired" blah, blah, blah, ladies when a man is sleepy he doesn't want to know s##t. When men are tired they actually don't care, they won't listen and when they knock out to sleep don't expect anything. I have found when a man is tired you may dance around naked he still won't take notice unless he's desperate, so don't communicate with them, its the same with every man. Pick you're heart to hearts in the morning or better still you have your friends,  that's what they're for.

Back to the men, would it kill you for once in a while listen like a friend if she needs to tell you something, try this to make her smile. When the other half is complaining say, "sweetheart sorry I've been absent, now I'm all yours tell me what's stressing you". If I heard that line I would be like "hey hold on what did I hear".
I mean 5-10 minutes of listening in a week or so isn't too much, but ladies don't go on too much, there's only so much a man can listen to and it isn't more then 10 minutes.

There are lots of small things which make women happy and by doing these we become the women you want, for those of you men doing all this and more, good job even though your a minority, you're doing us all proud hahahaha sorry but its true.
I understand you feel you can't please enough etc, but if you want to, you know you can.
Her are some bullet pointers.
  • Hold her hand once in a while .
  • Look into her eyes when up close. (if in love, sends shivers down her spine)
  • Buy lingerie of you're choice.
  • Take her on a dinner date and don't sit opposite sit next to her (sitting opposite means fire is dying)
  • Listen at least once a week.
  • Tell her she's beautiful.
There are many more things to know, but these if done spontaneously equals results, you have no idea of the appreciation you will get, oh yes you get the picture.

Most of the points mentioned cost nothing, and the rest well don't be a cheapskate she does more than enough for you, what's a little gift between lovers.

Anyway I don't want to be sexist so next time I will be doing some research on what men want, which shouldn't take me long, so watch this space for that.

 

Up close and personal like this,that's how we like to be, re-ignite the fire people.
 

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