Love yourself or no one will.

Hello again,

Today I want to talk about something deep, as the title is love yourself lets talks about it.

We women, no matter what size we become, can never be happy, when you are the size you want, you find another flaw in yourself.

I personally have my flaws but yes I love myself, what's not to love. What I mean by that is, I have so much love to give, I am funny at the best of times. I like to have a good time, and making people smile is my specialty, because that's what life is about. Oh and I think I look alright as well, I like to look at my assets not my flaws.

Flaws are fixable, so when someone says you have good skin, or you have a nice body etc., you need to learn to take the compliment. The very normal reply seems to be, "oh no my ass is so big, I haven't got a good body". People don't give compliments for no reason.

The reply shouldn't be vain, but should be, "thank you so much your so sweet", a reply of that sort shows your confidence. A confident women is a very sexy thing, and you will love yourself for it.

So what if your tummy is a bit jelly, and your nose is slightly pointy who cares. You walk in the room loving yourself the way you are, the chances of your man, or a man loving you are sky high.

Pay attention to yourself make the best of what you have, big eyes use mascara, thick hair have them re-styled. Look at yourself carefully and enhance your beauty, within your comfort zone. If you live in Dubai, most of you have no excuse, we have the help so what's stopping us.

And those international working mums I salute you, not only do you go to work, you cook clean and handle the kids. There should be an award for women like that, because I have the upmost respect for them. I am a housewife myself, so lots of love and respect for those of you who run the house, because as easy as we make it look, it's a tough job.

If your wearing flats, the transition to heels will be difficult but not impossible. Start with kitten heels, or wedges, baby steps and then confidence will come along itself.

So slowly but surely bring your sexy back and remember love and respect yourself, and then the world will see you that way as well.

My aim isn't to make you think make-up, clothes and shoes are important, even though they are part of what makes us girls. But it's to love who you are, and how you look. Surgery isn't the answer there's cheaper ways to look great, I mean I love big lips, mine are small. I would go for Botox but I hate needles. 

Even then I won't change myself there's no need, someone once pointed out to me you like big lips for yourself, that's why you love them on your man. So true, I would love to have them but mine are doing just fine and I accept that. 

So practice being more confident in yourself, start by thanking the person for the compliment and look like you mean it, don't look unsure. 

Don't give yourself a hard time about your weight, work for it and you can slim down, but don't go for size zero, you will look like a hanger for your clothes. 

The average women is a size 14 and that's not a bad thing, it's just fine to be who you are, but love yourself ladies because your beautiful inside out. As for physical appearance, that can be enhanced, it's not rocket science just vanity. 

I hope you enjoyed this post, because I certainly enjoyed writing it, have a wonderful day and love to all. 

Berrytiser mocktail Cheers x 

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